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How to Avoid Romance Scams

As Valentine’s Day approaches, love is in the air—but so are romance scams. With the help of advanced AI and sophisticated phishing tactics, these scams are more believable than ever and can happen to anyone at any time. At People Driven Credit Union (PDCU), we care about your financial and personal well-being. That’s why we want to share some important tips to help you recognize, prevent, and report romance scams, ensuring you feel safe and supported.


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What Are Romance Scams?

Romance scams occur when fraudsters create fake online relationships, often using social media and dating sites, to gain your trust and then trick you into providing sensitive information or sending money. These scams can be particularly insidious because they exploit emotions and the natural desire for connection, making recognizing the warning signs all the more challenging.


Tips to Protect Yourself

Here are some practical ways to safeguard your finances and personal information during this season of love:

  • Review Your Accounts Daily:
    Keep a close eye on your bank and credit union accounts. Report any discrepancies immediately so that any fraudulent activity can be stopped quickly.

  • Slow Down and Consult Someone You Trust:
    Scammers often try to rush you into decisions. Take your time; if something feels off, talk it over with a friend, family member, or trusted advisor. Be cautious about sharing personal details, especially on social media, as this information can be used to impersonate you.

  • Keep Social Media Profiles Private:
    Adjust your social media settings to limit who can see your posts and personal information. Be careful about connecting with people you don’t know well, as scammers often use social platforms to gather details about you.

  • Example text message of someone asking for money.
    Beware of Unmet Sweethearts Requesting Money:
    A key rule of thumb: never send money, gifts, or cash reloads to someone you’ve never met. If an online love interest asks for funds—whether to cover an emergency or as a gesture of affection—it’s a major red flag.

  • Report Suspicious Activity:
    If you suspect you’re dealing with a scam, report it immediately. You can file a complaint with the Federal Trade Commission at FTC.gov/complaint. Early reporting can help prevent further fraudulent activity and protect others from falling victim.


How We Can Help

At PDCU, your safety is our priority. If you believe you’ve shared your account information or think you might be a target of a romance scam, it’s essential to act quickly. Here’s what we can do together:

  • Immediate Account Changes:
    If you suspect any compromise of your account information, contact us immediately so we can secure your account and make any necessary changes.

  • Open Communication:
    Our team is here to support you. If you think something isn’t right, please don’t hesitate to reach out.


Stay Informed and Stay Safe

This Valentine’s Day, let’s celebrate love responsibly. Keep an eye on your financial activity, be cautious about who you trust online, and remember that asking for help is perfectly okay if something doesn’t feel right. At People Driven Credit Union, we’re here to support you every step of the way.

If you have any questions or need assistance, please call us at (248) 263-4100 or visit us online at peopledrivencu.org/contact.

For more information on how to keep you and your personal information safe, visit our webpage on fraud alerts.

Stay safe, stay informed, and have a wonderful, scam-free Valentine’s Day!



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